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[Feb. 12th, 2009|11:30 am]
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Having been through  a divorce a year ago and on my own for 4 how long must i go on feeling mixed up about life and what i want now . I have had one relationship since that failed and am currently in another one , but as friends at the moment . i think fear is behind my thoughts , i just don't want to let go of the barrier and like my independance ......my ex had an affair for 4 years , so thats why being on my own is good right now and the relationship i am in i have control over .....I just don't no if it's real love , even tho he is lovely and kind to me. Mixed up and confused ............ 

[User Picture]From: el_fitzgerald
2009-09-03 09:58 pm (UTC)
mmm... so difficult I think. It depends on a person. I know for example that after my marriage I dont want to get married again. Though I ve met a lot of interesting and wonderful men who wanted me to be their wife. Just I have my daughter and dont want to share it with anyone. I am afraid may be, afraid of disappointing once again. Better to be alone for me. I know it 100%. Sure, I need a man near me but not for marriage for sure. May be it is because I got married too early - when I was just 18 y.o.
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